How can I guide my teen daughter to explore her sexuality?

Query

I can tell that my teen daughter is exploring her sexuality, but I don’t want her to go too far and try things that could make her feel bad or scare her. How can I show her the way?

Khokar’s answer

Hello, and thanks for writing. It’s understandable that this situation might make you feel sad.

Sexuality can be hard to figure out when you’re a teen, so it’s natural for parents to feel both protective and worried. But there is no right or wrong answer to this question because every family has different values and ideas about how to handle this situation. An open discussion with your teen daughter is a good place to start. Talk about your own values and feelings about the situation, and make sure to listen to hers as well. This will help her figure out what her own values should be. It’s also important to tell her the truth about sex and sexuality. Bust any myths or false ideas she may have heard from other people. If you think she’s ready, you can also talk about birth control and how to avoid and treat sexually transmitted infections (STIs). You might want to tell her about safe ways to have sex and let her know that she can always talk to you if she has questions or worries.

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It’s also important to give your daughter a safe place to learn about her sexuality. This could mean giving her some space in her personal life and respecting her decisions, even if you don’t agree with them. Also, it’s important to back up your daughter, no matter what she decides.

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Lastly, you should keep in mind that your daughter is still a teenager and will make mistakes. Try not to get too upset if she tries things you don’t like; just be there for her when she needs you. It’s important to keep in mind that everyone makes mistakes, so your daughter shouldn’t feel bad or ashamed if she tries something new. The teenage years are a time to figure out who you are, and your daughter may change her mind about her sexuality more than once during this time. If her explorations do turn out to be bad for her, be sure to support and understand her instead of judging or being afraid of her.

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No matter what your daughter decides, the most important thing is that you support her through this whole process. Let her make her own choices, as long as they make sense. It’s important that your daughter always feels loved and cared for by you.

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Lastly, I would suggest that you or your daughter go to therapy if you can’t deal with the thoughts, feelings, and discomfort that come with the situation. Do not be afraid to ask for help. I hope this is useful!

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